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Habit obsession often masks fear of direction.

Routines are instruments, not meaning, and polishing them can mimic progress without transformation. Direction breaks the spell by forcing judgment, responsibility, and change.

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TOMEK
Dec 30, 2025
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The modern world celebrates habit as a universal solution. Build routines, optimize mornings, track behaviors, repeat endlessly. Discipline is framed as virtue in itself, detached from the question of where it leads. This belief is comforting because habits are measurable, repeatable, and socially rewarded. Direction is none of these. Direction demands judgment, risk, and the acceptance that one may choose wrongly. Obsession with habit often emerges precisely where this demand feels intolerable.

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